The best advice I can EVER give ANY GUY!!! read and learn fellas
written by: Kendra~
Hey How’s it going? We had this section up before and received a lot of messages from guys inquiring to put it back up. so here it is again guys, by popular demand! I appreciate everybody who has the patience and the interest to read some of my articles (I know it’s like a book, but I try to write content with value, because I know what it’s like to read boring and useless information) so I truly hope this helps you
So here’s some free advice for you guys who want to know the TRUTH about getting a girl’s attention and capturing her interest in the quickest and most powerful way possible, (I want you to know that in this section I talk about what I’ve observed about guys on myspace, Facebook and in real life, being a decently attractive girl and being hit on by literally thousands of guys over the last decade or so; working as a bartender in Vegas, in bars, clubs, the supermarket, you name it. So I want to apologize beforehand if any of it seems rude at all “it’s not meant to be” I know that these examples don’t pertain to all guys I’m just generalizing, so don’t take offense)
Ok so I’ve noticed that about 98% of the guys have no idea what to say to a woman. they’re either too nice, too arrogant, too complimentive, too perverted, come off as too insecure, or too boring/average. Are you guys serious?! come on… do you really think this stuff gets a girl to like you? I hope this isn’t how you talk to all girls, if so, you are dramatically ruining your chances. saying things like “DAMMM” and “you’re so beautiful” is nice, but we hear it 300 times a day by 300 different guys who all say the same cookie-cutter crap that we can see right through. If you’re nervouse WE CAN TELL, if you’re insecure WE CAN TELL. and if you’re the type of guy we can see as someone we want to have sex with WE CAN TELL almost immediately.
first of all: unlike guys women are not as visually stimulated so abs and huge muscles and good looks won’t make us want you like big tits a beautiful face and a nice ass will make you want us. girls are attracted 80% to personality i.e. confidence, humor, etc. the same way that guys are attracted 80% to good looks (girls are slightly more complicated) this is why sometimes you see incredibly attractive women who seem perfectly infatuated or attracted to average or below average looking guys who don’t necessarily have a large bank account.
So what’s the secret magical combination that cuts straight through and pushes any girl’s “attraction button”? (complimenting won’t do it, neither will being overly sweet, and showing off cars, possessions, and muscles just makes you seem insecure or that you have nothing of value personality wise). These are all ways to turn off almost all girls from being interested in you!! (seriously). girls (especially the hot ones) get hit on and messaged like 300 times a day!, if you don’t say the right thing in the right way we will determine very quickly if you are a catch or a possible sexual fling. Girls are extremely intuitive and we can see right through a lot of your BS and over-trying approach. The guys that instinctively say the right things in the perfect way everytime typically get all the girls, the guys who have little to no clue about these things will fail repeatedly and hardly get any positive response, dates, or any ASS;)
Almost all of the guys I’ve noticed that hit on me (and probably every other girl) on myspace, facebook, real life, etc are making HUGE mistakes! NOCK IT OFF! I’m letting you know right now there’s this guy who spent like 5 years studying female psychology (how a women’s mind works, what makes them want a guy, what things guys say that turns them off, etc) anyway he wrote a book all about this stuff. And I must say that when I was asked to review the “female attraction secrets” this guy wrote about I was fascinated because I wanted to know if this guy was as good with women as he said he was, so I read his little book and was absolutely impressed out of my mind! I learned things about myself/and every other girl that I didn’t even know (and I’m a girl!!) I’ve even found myself wondering why I was so attracted to certain guys in the past who didn’t really seem to have anything great going for them but I couldn’t figure it out until I read this book! It all makes complete since now. The bookl is an absolute powerhouse of phenomenal information. My mind was blown over and over again! He cracks the whole secret female attraction thing wide in such a simple and powerful way that any guy who masters the book’s simple principles will also master women. The contents of the book basically gives the reader the power to push any woman’s “attraction button” in virtually any circumstance.
